KAC, I too was an Elden Ring noob. A friend gifted me the game, so I felt obliged to play it, and my friend's support practically forced me to finish it.
I did not have fun.
Souls games are an excruciating challenge, and if you do not enjoy overcoming those, you will not have fun. The game does not get easier. The only way forward is to get better. This is not a game that explains things. Not a game that holds hands. Not a game that gives notifications. You either read the wiki's, watch the video's, accept the hints and tips from others... Or suffer endlessly like the undead you are. Souls games are special in that they're essentially asynchronous co-op games. You do not play these games alone - you must rally the community, learn from who came before, and take their lessons to heart.
Rinse, repeat, improve, git gud.
The reward is miniscule: you'll have become gud at Elden Ring. You'll have beaten the simpleton skeletons, the gigantic beasts and the ruling lords. You'll have suffered defeat, death and embarrassment from your own weaknesses, but you'll have proven that you are more stubborn than this game.
If you're stubborn enough and willing to accept that it's not a single player "cinematic experience" like Sony's user-friendly interactive movie blockbusters, you might stand a chance. If not, uninstall, and live a happy life. Your call.