Somebody responded on my reddit post. Turns out they are having similar problems, so this is a problem for sure with the update.
"Ok to lose to opponent, must not lose to fear!"
"Think of how stupid the average person is, and realize half of them are stupider than that."
"A man moaning in a pr0n sounds like a cow with a kidney stone."
"It's often not your fault if you have problems, but it is your responsibility to do something about them".