How far do you usually go on a first date?

Bob Bobbles · Feb 13, 2009, 05:03 PM

I tend to leave it at a hug and maybe a peck on the cheek.

monkeydust · Feb 13, 2009, 05:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Bob Bobbles

I tend to leave it at a hug and maybe a peck on the cheek.

That's where I'm currently at after my fifth date.

Although, last few have just been lunch dates.

Bob Bobbles · Feb 13, 2009, 05:14 PM

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Originally Posted by monkeydust

That's where I'm currently at after my fifth date.

Although, last few have just been lunch dates.

I'm a shy guy, but I can usually manage a closed-mouth kiss on at least the 3rd date or so.

You should probably make some sort of move to prevent getting stuck in the friends-zone

Cowzrul · Feb 13, 2009, 05:20 PM

Hug and a peck sounds right to me. I mean, you can always go further if you think she's into it, but I like to go slower, myself.

OuttaTime · Feb 13, 2009, 05:22 PM

I usually go all in.

Uber_Tiny · Feb 13, 2009, 05:25 PM

It really depends on how the date went. I usually get attacked on the first date if it goes well

. It pays to be your self, and kind, and a pure gentleman.

I think I have only had one date where I got a nice big hug and a peck on lips.

Supra_Freak · Feb 13, 2009, 05:29 PM

I'll go all the way if i get the chance, lol

Zero · Feb 13, 2009, 05:33 PM

Balls deep.

swingline · Feb 13, 2009, 05:38 PM

Just the tip, I promise.

Alientank · Feb 13, 2009, 05:39 PM

While it sounds like a good idea to go all the way it probably won't be a relationship material girl. Unless you aren't looking for that type of thing at the time.

ZeeM · Feb 13, 2009, 05:49 PM

Balls in da ass
**** in da *****

squid · Feb 13, 2009, 06:12 PM

dutch oven

monkeydust · Feb 13, 2009, 06:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bob Bobbles

I'm a shy guy, but I can usually manage a closed-mouth kiss on at least the 3rd date or so.

You should probably make some sort of move to prevent getting stuck in the friends-zone

Well, on the first date, friend said she didn't kiss on first/second date. Dates 3, 4, and 5 were lunch dates and it didn't seem appropriate. Was trying to get her to come over for dinner this weekend but can't get babysitter.

imagine · Feb 13, 2009, 07:59 PM

I usually try to keep it casual, just a kiss or a bit of making out, then home ...

but honestly? 90% of the time, the girl is insistent and we go all the way.

Kraven · Feb 13, 2009, 08:01 PM

2 slaps round the face with my willeh.

Just a kiss on cheek really.

ice · Feb 13, 2009, 08:04 PM

Problem with many people is they often do the hug and peck on the cheek routine, but come second or third date their nuts are flapping on the girl's ass making sounds akin to an old farmer clapping while doing a hoedown.

I take things very slow and easy and get to know the girl much more than people around me before I do anything serious.

Razeus · Feb 13, 2009, 09:33 PM

i go for the homerun. well, at least i gauge it throughout the night with some jokes and playful touching. so while she's thinking she'll get the old hug and peck, she'll be turned on by the aggressiveness of the Raz.

Osirus · Feb 13, 2009, 11:10 PM

depends on the girl/ date..

my gf now, first date, i ended up staying at her house for 4 days..
now i was with her all day. and didnt kiss her till that eve when we were cuddled on her couch.
that night she.. went down on me.. and we fooled about the next 2 nights.
we waited over a month before going all the way though.
( and ive known her for about a year so its not like i was at a total strangers house for 4 days. talked to her online fora year and we met in person a few weeks before that,)

Girl i dated in november/ dec, well, we kissed right when we met for the first date actually...
then made out a lil later on

Girl i dated in setp/ oct first date she got nothing. not even a hug.
2nd date a kiss goodnight.

Girl in augest, she went for a kiss, i gave her a hug..
i wasnt super interested in anything more than friends.. lol.

Girl in july.. i went to see her spent the say with her..
that night she was asking "if it was ok that she really wanted me"..
i had nothing agaisnt that.. lol
except for the fact that she already had a BF..

'sigh' womens..

acidosmosis · Feb 14, 2009, 02:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bob Bobbles

I tend to leave it at a hug and maybe a peck on the cheek.

Statistically wise as far as "first dates" for me. I usually hit it on the first date. I don't know how that happens. If not the first date, within 2 weeks I'd say, or a few days.

ZeeM · Feb 14, 2009, 03:41 AM

edit: wrong thread

twiSt · Feb 14, 2009, 03:54 AM

I usuallly tie her up to a chair and make her go deepthroat on me. too bad that doesn't leave much for a second date

ThirdEye · Feb 14, 2009, 04:05 AM

I've never been on a date, the one time I was with a woman I just came over to her place after work and got my finger up there, the next day it was knee deep. Then somehow we were a couple for 2 months. That was 3 years ago. Never asked out a girl out in that time nor has one ever approched me.

MasterGoa · Feb 14, 2009, 09:51 AM

TE, they all do NOT smell like that one did...

Do not be scared...

As for me, a hug, unless the time spent together was super electric,
then it is a kiss.

MG

Miggins · Feb 14, 2009, 12:53 PM

I expect nothing less than a rusty trombone

hobs0n · Feb 14, 2009, 05:07 PM

Im usually just having a long walk with them and talking but it was a looong time ago since I ever was on a date so I really dont know what to do these days

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Originally Posted by squid

dutch oven

Hehe what does this mean?

Cowzrul · Feb 14, 2009, 05:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by hobs0n

Im usually just having a long walk with them and talking but it was a looong time ago since I ever was on a date so I really dont know what to do these days

Hehe what does this mean?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dutch_oven_(disambiguation)

None of those really make sense.

Gator · Feb 14, 2009, 05:56 PM

As far as they'll let you go

MasterGoa · Feb 14, 2009, 11:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by hobs0n

Hehe what does this mean?

http://www.urbandictionary.com/defin...erm=dutch+oven

UberBeavis · Feb 15, 2009, 12:27 AM

Our first date, we went all the way to Orlando, Florida.

FrAg Of FuRy · Feb 15, 2009, 01:31 AM

I go as far as they allow........and if it's not allowed, I send them walking...(only to drive around the block with ski mask and knife and still make it a great first date)

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Feb 13, 2009, 05:22 PM	#5
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Feb 13, 2009, 07:59 PM	#14
imagine Rage3D Veteran Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 1,912	I usually try to keep it casual, just a kiss or a bit of making out, then home ... but honestly? 90% of the time, the girl is insistent and we go all the way. __________________ "This is how I did it - I never saved anything for the swim back."

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ice Rage3D Spammer Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: PA Posts: 16,582	Problem with many people is they often do the hug and peck on the cheek routine, but come second or third date their nuts are flapping on the girl's ass making sounds akin to an old farmer clapping while doing a hoedown. I take things very slow and easy and get to know the girl much more than people around me before I do anything serious. __________________ X3350 (3.6GHZ)\|4GB of GSkill\|500GB + 320GB SATA\|MSI 8800GTS OC 512MB \|Abit IP35 Pro\|Windows 7 64 Ultimate 360 games

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