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![]() Indeed, nothing like catching up with old friends, we both have some good story's to tell, that's for sure ![]()
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![]() all I can say is be warned, one minute you're being adored, the next your scrotum is on a platter. #**** it sall, judt **** it/ 'i gave up evrtything sandf changed myself but it was not enough, there cannot be enough. I have no one now, how can you justify that as a 30 year old? It's ****ed up.
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Secondly- you do have friends that care. Every one of us. Think that doesn't matter? Think we don't count? Then returned all of the damned money we gave you to help you out. Now, if my point isn't missed on you, put the damned bottle away, and start figuring out how to move on. This does not include guilt tripping yourself or blaming yourself. There are lessons to be learned from this, learn them, and become better because of it. The future is what you make of it. Ball is in your court.
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Try to go easier on yourself - every single thing I've seen from you here tells me you are one decent, stand up kind of guy. Ride this out, it will get better. |
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But you want to know what I do? I deal with it, the best I can. I get up every morning regardless if I don't want to, go to work and come home after 14 hours, make dinner sometimes do the yard work if I couldn't do it during the weekend as I am working then as well, watch some TV, put up with KAC hitting on me and go to bed and do it all over again the next morning. So what I can suggest, do what you want to do, from the sounds of it you tried to change who you are and you should never do that for any bitch. She can't accept you for who you are then **** her, she'll degrade and bring down the next guy, and the next guy and the next guy. And while she's doing that, you'll be living the high life, you'll have someone a lot better in your life. Hell mother****er, you were the one that found M4trix's info for me so I could call his dumbass and make sure he was still alive so just look at his situation. You'll survive this, just like the rest of us have I assure you. Now I am gonna go find something on TV as its a Saturday night and I have no one either, maybe I'll download some porn, go to 7/11 grab some chips and some peanut butter cups and enjoy my weekend. Hell maybe I'll even get that third 780 tomorrow that I keep telling everyone I am going to get but never do.
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![]() John, if you can read this get on Skype. |
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![]() **** hap, thanks for replying man, to all of you all actually included redeemed as sometimes in these situations you do need a kick in the nuts to snap you out of it. As of two days ago i live with my parents, bro, his daughter and partner, yes it's a 4/5 bed house but I have been self sufficient for such a long time, not sure if i can handle it.... greatful of course though. Partners mom is beside herself and wants me to try everything as she agrees that she has fallen since uni/house etc and she is a psychiatrist ! Question is how long can i now give this, I have done and tried everything and it is making me ill. |
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![]() Anaconda is on TV right now, gonna run to the 7/11 and get some snacks.
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![]() I feel for ya John. We can give you all the advice in the world, but it doesn't change anything. A lot of us have had a woman royally screw us over, so we understand what you're going through, at least to a degree. Try to focus on being positive...no sad movies, music, etc. You'll be just fine mate. If I can do it, you can too. ![]() |
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You have been, and will remain in my prayers buddy. Though it may be tempting try to leave the booze alone. Keep a clear and sober head, you're going to need it through this. You need to rediscover who you are as an individual, you gotta' get your identity back. And then let the wounds heal, absorbing every possible lesson you can from this experience. This makes you more, this makes you better, than whom you were. But it takes time, you've just got to be willing to walk this thing out though. We're all rooting for you, bro. You've got this, man- you've got this. ![]() ![]()
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![]() Possibly apropos of nothing, but I find it rather comforting--in its way--that said ex's mother seems to be on John's side (or at least sympathetic to his plight) in this mess. It's a small thing, but still...it means more people care, and that's never a bad thing. And, hell, you still have time to get from where you are now ![]() to somewhere a little better headspace-wise, like ![]() So hang in there, man. We're pulling for you. To repeat: ![]() |
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![]() hey man, your spammage has been way down lately...how's it going? Hope things are looking up for you ![]() |
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![]() I'm kinda getting back on track thanks ![]() She kept me going for 3 weeks on Skype talking for several hours per day whilst she 'sorted her head out' then 10 days ago told me it was over again... I knew it would end that way but what can you do lol, at least looking back on it I can say that I tried. A few days back it was her birthday which was a little hard. Settled into my parents new house now and have a few projects I'm working on whilst looking for the idea job if it crops up but giving myself until Christmas to see if I can make it alone. Created a few websites for cash just to keep off the boredom and met with an old friend who wants me to set up a shop as he has a chain but I'm not interested as it's not the direction I wish to go in. Created a website for his cousin for free as it may come in handy as she's a venture capitalist and it just so happens that I may need some funding soon for one of my projects, it's funny how life works out some times. I'm also now off the booze and started a good diet and exercise regime and I'm traveling to Bristol over the next few weeks as there's a load of app developers seminars which I'm getting free of charge courtesy of my old professor. Trying to keep myself occupied as much as possible, also cannot wait until I can move out..... I have been independent for years and it's very odd going back home.... although it's nice to have Sunday dinner cooked for you ![]() ![]() |
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![]() Hey Dave ![]() Btw I'm sharing the house with my parents, brother, niece and his partner. Its a 4.5 bed 3 story house but still pretty dammed cosy ![]() |
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![]() Tell me about it mate lol.... got a young child potty training, 3 neurotic cats and a jack Russell with a lampshade on as she just had an ass tumour removed. .. it's like a freak show here ![]() |
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Remember to stay away from the booze and sad music, especially country music. If you must listen to country, play it backwards. You get your woman back, the dog comes back to life, Momma pops out from under the train, and it stops raining. ![]() |
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![]() Oops I missed that , obviously I meant my brothers partner ![]() |
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