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Old Nov 19, 2009, 02:57 PM   #1
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Well I know a girl who has a "male friend" she says they are only friends and she doesnt care about him the other way. She is telling the truth.

The problem is the "male friend" doesnt see it that way. And for the life of me I cant make her see that he just wants to **** her.

Does anyone know how you can explain this to girls in their language so they understand?

I really dont know how the hell girls dont see it. They really think a "guy friend" wants to hang with them every night, do everything for them, watch movies, call and text message them 100+ times a day etc just because they are friends

She even told me that "for fun" he even tries to kiss her when they watch movies. He goes really near and just waits for a kiss. She just blows on him (she is a smoker and he hates smokers and the breath)

And she still think he sees her as a friend? I think girls are mentally damaged at birth
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Old Nov 19, 2009, 02:58 PM   #2
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Said it before, I'll say it again. Men and women cannot be "just friends". One of them wants more. One may not, but one of the two always wants more. I think women keep guys like the one your describing around because it flatters their ego and gives them the attention that all women seek.
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I think you should do the guy a favour and tell him she'll never be interested in him.
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Said it before, I'll say it again. Men and women cannot be "just friends". One of them wants more. One may not, but one of the two always wants more. I think women keep guys like the one your describing around because it flatters their ego and gives them the attention that all women seek.
Thats what I am saying.
But I dont know how to explain to her about her "friend".
Tried a few times and she always gets mad
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Old Nov 19, 2009, 03:37 PM   #6
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Thats what I am saying.
But I dont know how to explain to her about her "friend".
Tried a few times and she always gets mad
There's no getting through to a female that seeks attention and is getting it. They = teh
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Old Nov 19, 2009, 03:44 PM   #7
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Old Nov 19, 2009, 03:48 PM   #8
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Men and women cannot be "just friends".

yes they can actually. if theyre both gay.
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Old Nov 19, 2009, 03:52 PM   #9
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i've got a good female friend that i don't want to go out with. she's my ex
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Old Nov 19, 2009, 04:02 PM   #10
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Well I know a girl who has a "male friend" she says they are only friends and she doesnt care about him the other way. She is telling the truth.

The problem is the "male friend" doesnt see it that way. And for the life of me I cant make her see that he just wants to **** her.

Does anyone know how you can explain this to girls in their language so they understand?

I really dont know how the hell girls dont see it. They really think a "guy friend" wants to hang with them every night, do everything for them, watch movies, call and text message them 100+ times a day etc just because they are friends

She even told me that "for fun" he even tries to kiss her when they watch movies. He goes really near and just waits for a kiss. She just blows on him (she is a smoker and he hates smokers and the breath)

And she still think he sees her as a friend? I think girls are mentally damaged at birth
your friend who is a girl is an attention whore
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Old Nov 19, 2009, 04:10 PM   #11
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I know a girl who I am genuine friends with. Yes. She is good looking. But seriously I have no interest in her. Anyways she is a virgin and pretty oblivious to her looks. Thus this makes her not a bitch. She's not a club going type of girl either, she's one of those just hang out types.

Because of this she has been swarmed by guys at school and recieved all kinds of attention. Yes she has dated in the past but the guy didn't get any because he cheated on her after only a few months of dating. Thus she doesn't trust many people. But yea, she is totally oblivious. I try to explain to her that most of these guys talk to her because they want to dick her but she doesn't believe it.

And yes I know it sounds hypocritical to say it because I'm one of the guys that talk to her, but I'm engaged, and she already knows I have no interest in her and vice versa. I agree that most of the time guys can't just be friends with girls. In this case with this girl though I definitely can just be friends.
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I'm sticking with the attention whore idea, even if they don't want to see it as that black and white. It is their own ego boost if they have guys that follow them around and kiss their ass (figuratively).
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Oh she will be riding this guy in no time. He will stick around till she gives it up and I say there is a 75 percent chance that she will.

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Old Nov 19, 2009, 05:08 PM   #15
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Said it before, I'll say it again. Men and women cannot be "just friends". One of them wants more. One may not, but one of the two always wants more. I think women keep guys like the one your describing around because it flatters their ego and gives them the attention that all women seek.
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You are not going to convince her because she is doing it for attention. Once the guy gets tired and pissed at her will she probably stop being around said "male friend". I am sorry badboy.
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Said it before, I'll say it again. Men and women cannot be "just friends". One of them wants more. One may not, but one of the two always wants more. I think women keep guys like the one your describing around because it flatters their ego and gives them the attention that all women seek.
I disagree wholly on this statement.
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I'm in the saaaaaame boat. lol.
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The only way you and a girl can be just friends...

Oh screw it, that’ll never happen.

Imagine you have a girlfriend. And you tell your girlfriend you’re going to a girl’s house to study... alone.

Slap to the face.

Imagine you have a wife, and you’re going camping with your friend’s wife... alone.

Slap to the face.
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It *is* possible for a guy and a girl to be just friends. Just not really *close* friends.

And of course this girl you know gets mad when you try to tell her all he wants to do is bang her. Right now, she has this glorious illusion that the guy actually likes her for *her*, and not for those soft, pliable labia she has between her legs.

Though it's quite possible this girl is simply:

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The only way you and a girl can be just friends...

Oh screw it, that’ll never happen.

Imagine you have a girlfriend. And you tell your girlfriend you’re going to a girl’s house to study... alone.

Slap to the face.

Imagine you have a wife, and you’re going camping with your friend’s wife... alone.

Slap to the face.
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Well I know a girl who has a "male friend" she says they are only friends and she doesnt care about him the other way. She is telling the truth.

The problem is the "male friend" doesnt see it that way. And for the life of me I cant make her see that he just wants to **** her.

Does anyone know how you can explain this to girls in their language so they understand?

I really dont know how the hell girls dont see it. They really think a "guy friend" wants to hang with them every night, do everything for them, watch movies, call and text message them 100+ times a day etc just because they are friends

She even told me that "for fun" he even tries to kiss her when they watch movies. He goes really near and just waits for a kiss. She just blows on him (she is a smoker and he hates smokers and the breath)

And she still think he sees her as a friend? I think girls are mentally damaged at birth
she knows what he wants, and loves the attention. She secretly looks forward to when he makes a real move, and she can reject him.
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Well I know a girl who has a "male friend" she says they are only friends and she doesnt care about him the other way. She is telling the truth.

The problem is the "male friend" doesnt see it that way. And for the life of me I cant make her see that he just wants to **** her.

Does anyone know how you can explain this to girls in their language so they understand?

I really dont know how the hell girls dont see it. They really think a "guy friend" wants to hang with them every night, do everything for them, watch movies, call and text message them 100+ times a day etc just because they are friends

She even told me that "for fun" he even tries to kiss her when they watch movies. He goes really near and just waits for a kiss. She just blows on him (she is a smoker and he hates smokers and the breath)

And she still think he sees her as a friend? I think girls are mentally damaged at birth
Sounds like some one is jealous.
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Sounds like some one is jealous.
Yes I am as I am dating her
I know she sees him as a friend but I know what he sees and I want to punch him
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Sounds like some one is jealous.
Maybe you didn't understand what kind of a woman he's describing. I sure as hell would be jealous too.
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Yes I am as I am dating her
I know she sees him as a friend but I know what he sees and I want to punch him
Aaah, now the truth comes out.Tell him to back off.
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