So I'm getting divorced. - Page 4

Cyko · May 9, 2012, 10:33 PM

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Originally Posted by wabbitslayer

should've stood up for your principles and told here there wasn't any good reason to get married, it was just what society expected, you weren't getting married and if she didn't like it, GTFO.

It's not that I HATE marriage, and I basically did tell her that I didn't see what the big deal about marriage was. She BASICALLY replied "I WANT TO BE MARRIED" so I said "ok...marriage...sounds good". I do love her however and want to be with her and she really wanted it so I got married. Like I said, I don't need the title or the bullshit I just need the person. I don't expect everyone to be like me, I'm a freakin' psycho (hence my name).

xCLAVEx · May 10, 2012, 12:42 AM

Cooter is a powerful motivator.

Cyko · May 10, 2012, 12:50 AM

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Originally Posted by xCLAVEx

Cooter is a powerful motivator.

So are great BJ's

...when I get them...which in the married world is anniversaries...maybe my birthday...st. patty's day if I get her drunk enough...

KAC · May 10, 2012, 01:38 AM

First world problems lol

Cyko · May 10, 2012, 01:51 AM

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Originally Posted by KickAssCop

First world problems lol

Jankan · May 10, 2012, 06:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Cyko

It's not that I HATE marriage, and I basically did tell her that I didn't see what the big deal about marriage was. She BASICALLY replied "I WANT TO BE MARRIED" so I said "ok...marriage...sounds good". I do love her however and want to be with her and she really wanted it so I got married. Like I said, I don't need the title or the bullshit I just need the person. I don't expect everyone to be like me, I'm a freakin' psycho (hence my name).

Unfortunately, thats 90% of women out there. Somewhere along the line they want to get married. I have the same issue. My GF tells me that she wants to be engaged by the end of the year or she will leave me

ice · May 10, 2012, 07:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Jankan

Unfortunately, thats 90% of women out there. Somewhere along the line they want to get married. I have the same issue. My GF tells me that she wants to be engaged by the end of the year or she will leave me

I'd do her a favor then and let her wake up outside one morning with all her stuff

Sorry, but pulling something like that is BS.

compunoob · May 10, 2012, 08:16 AM

Sorry that this is all happening to you. You shouldn't feel like "Now my kids will come from a broken home." Would you rather them live in a loveless house? At least now when you find true love you will be able to set a good example for them. Staying together for the kids is wrong. They will then grow up with an obscured view of what love is.

Jay20016 · May 10, 2012, 08:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Jankan

Unfortunately, thats 90% of women out there. Somewhere along the line they want to get married. I have the same issue. My GF tells me that she wants to be engaged by the end of the year or she will leave me

Nothing says love and longevity like an ultimatum...

Seriously...

Shadowless · May 10, 2012, 08:24 AM

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Originally Posted by curio

Same here, even the same time together. While the divorce process itself was hell (yay money); it was the best thing that ever happened to our entire family.

Yeah, my parents divorce was hell; my dad had a bad lawyer and was stubborn, and my mom tried to squeeze every dime out of him (which really annoyed the **** out of me). My youngest brother for a little over 3 years after the divorce had a very bad relationship with my father due to the divorce process, and I really only talked to him about 4 times a year for the 2 years the divorce was going on.

DorXtar · May 10, 2012, 11:21 AM

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Originally Posted by ice

I'd do her a favor then and let her wake up outside one morning with all her stuff

Sorry, but pulling something like that is BS.

The basis of the modern relationship is based on ego. Marriage has very little effect on ego-based relationships.

That is why you have people like John Hamm talking about how they don't need to get married.

The threat of being able to get out of the relationship at a moment's notice are the ties that bind now.

Apparently, love is a hostile endeavour these days. It is a battlefield.

[GFX]TheDon · May 10, 2012, 11:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Zoolok

The void that stays after a relationship (any kind of it, really) is tough to fill with something else. But it will happen. Good things pass, but bad things pass, too.

Stay strong and good luck

This! I have been struggling to get the rug under my feet back again for the last two years...yes we where totally agreeing on the divorce. Our relationship had turned into a brother/sister thingy...comfy but no passion.
BUT under the 20 odd years we where married alot of things, good and bad, have passed us by gluing us together (or drifting us apart...you tell me).
Yes I miss the COMPANY of my wife, and son...allthough he is an adult now (22).
It is quiet in the apartment except for the nights when I get drunk or when the cat, wich btw is my wife and sons...not mine but got "left behind" when they moved out.
What I guess I am trying to say here Sundance is that ther is actually light in the tunnel at the end! (Hoo boy I am rambling now am I not?)

Chin up!

(sorry for all the spelling errors, English is not my native language and I have had a couple of glasses of whine..)

wabbitslayer · May 10, 2012, 11:59 AM

A lot of posts in this thread demonstrate why divorce rates are so high.

FFS, guys, if women as a whole are that bad, go suck some dick and be happy with your bros...

ZeeM · May 10, 2012, 01:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Jankan

Unfortunately, thats 90% of women out there. Somewhere along the line they want to get married. I have the same issue. My GF tells me that she wants to be engaged by the end of the year or she will leave me

Nice girlfriend there. Definitely wife material /sarcasm

Sundance Kid V2 · May 10, 2012, 01:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Jankan

Unfortunately, thats 90% of women out there. Somewhere along the line they want to get married. I have the same issue. My GF tells me that she wants to be engaged by the end of the year or she will leave me

Dude.. my wife did the same. I don't say all woman are bad. At the end of the day... you want to be married out of your own will not because she has a need.

And yea.. you think she is awesome, awesome bjs , random sex, sex whenever you want it etc. Wait till after marriage.. kiss those good bye. Then it's on her terms after marriage.

Been there.. got the t-shirt.

Cyko · May 10, 2012, 04:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Sundance Kid V2

Been there.. got the t-shirt.

ALL married men have that t-shirt. You get it after you turn your balls and man-card in as a consolation prize

ViCyniC · May 10, 2012, 04:41 PM

There should be a divorce sub-forum here.

Nascar24 · May 10, 2012, 05:55 PM

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Originally Posted by wabbitslayer

A lot of posts in this thread demonstrate why divorce rates are so high.

FFS, guys, if women as a whole are that bad, go suck some dick and be happy with your bros...

LOL, Duh huh! Yes do what ever your women wants of you and be a man puppet to her every whim. Your post makes so much sense.

Jandar · May 10, 2012, 07:44 PM

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Originally Posted by curio

It seems like the 10-15 year mark is the range that a lot of you got divorced. I've only been married for five; now you are all making me nervous

My 11th anniversary is coming up in a month....

ZeeM · May 12, 2012, 03:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Sundance Kid V2

Dude.. my wife did the same.

How come you didn't see it coming? She basically said I don't care about you I just want to get engaged/married.

****ing wimmenz.

Jankan · May 12, 2012, 04:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Cyko

ALL married men have that t-shirt. You get it after you turn your balls and man-card in as a consolation prize

She already has my car

Sundance Kid V2 · May 12, 2012, 05:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Jankan

She already has my car

If the car is in your name , she can't take it. Report her for theft.

My brother's wife was the same. Money before anything else. My wife was this independent student when we met 15 years ago. But money got the better of her during the years.

Get married, but outside community property. Else you lose like I'm going to. All the money I invested into the house with my overtime, she is taking 50%. She spend more money than I can dream, and yet she is going to take 50%.

Let that be a lesson...

Edit: When you get married & have kids... that is when the shift occurs. Then they know they got you by the b@lls. It's not fun. I would kick her to the curb .. but now my 2 kiddos are attached to this b!tch.

Sundance Kid V2 · May 12, 2012, 05:59 AM

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Originally Posted by ZeeM

How come you didn't see it coming? She basically said I don't care about you I just want to get engaged/married.

****ing wimmenz.

Dude.. she gave good head.

.

But seriously.. she really loved me.. but money spending just got better of her. And it's like an alcholholic... it never ends. It will tear the family apart but they will still continue. She has that disease... and she is fcking up our whole family.

ZeeM · May 12, 2012, 06:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Sundance Kid V2

Dude.. she gave good head.

.

But seriously.. she really loved me.. but money spending just got better of her. And it's like an alcholholic... it never ends. It will tear the family apart but they will still continue. She has that disease... and she is fcking up our whole family.

That's what you get for getting married. Let that be a lesson to all us little kids: marriage is bad mmmkay?

Jankan · May 12, 2012, 07:03 AM

What do we learn from this kids? Marry a woman with lots of money!!!

Sundance Kid V2 · May 12, 2012, 07:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Jankan

What do we learn from this kids? Marry a woman with lots of money!!!

And yet when children are there she'll make your life hell...

Sundance Kid V2 · May 12, 2012, 07:42 AM

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Originally Posted by ZeeM

That's what you get for getting married. Let that be a lesson to all us little kids: marriage is bad mmmkay?

I tend to agree. Why ever get married again? Fck it. Woman these days don't want husband, they want slaves with bank balances which they can control.

SkullE_again · May 12, 2012, 09:20 AM

sounds like you've learned your lesson. Unfortunately it will be an expensive one.

Now ask yourself....can you live on your own and be happy like us introverts.
a lot of people can't and they jump right back into another bad relationship.

Sir Duke · May 12, 2012, 09:42 AM

I just broke up with my gf (now ex gf) for almost 2 years. Nothing matches up to your marriage, but still. hey man bitches come bitches go

Sundance Kid V2 · May 12, 2012, 10:23 AM

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Originally Posted by SkullE_again

sounds like you've learned your lesson. Unfortunately it will be an expensive one.

Now ask yourself....can you live on your own and be happy like us introverts.
a lot of people can't and they jump right back into another bad relationship.

I don't need another relationship. I got burned badly on this one.

Next girl I ever date, I'll ask for bank balance, budget etc before even going on first date.

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May 10, 2012, 12:42 AM	#92
xCLAVEx Gone Join Date: Feb 2001 Posts: 21,445	Cooter is a powerful motivator.

May 10, 2012, 01:38 AM	#94
KAC The anti-gays Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Lahore Posts: 32,605	First world problems lol

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May 10, 2012, 08:16 AM	#98
compunoob Computer Bonehead Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Calif Posts: 3,983	Sorry that this is all happening to you. You shouldn't feel like "Now my kids will come from a broken home." Would you rather them live in a loveless house? At least now when you find true love you will be able to set a good example for them. Staying together for the kids is wrong. They will then grow up with an obscured view of what love is.

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May 10, 2012, 11:59 AM	#103
wabbitslayer Public Offender Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Cahulawassee River Posts: 4,883	A lot of posts in this thread demonstrate why divorce rates are so high. FFS, guys, if women as a whole are that bad, go suck some dick and be happy with your bros... __________________ This space for rent. "Success is getting what you want. Happiness is wanting what you get."---Brother Dave Gardner

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May 10, 2012, 04:41 PM	#107
ViCyniC Rage3D Spammer Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: New Jersey Posts: 15,958	There should be a divorce sub-forum here.

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May 12, 2012, 07:03 AM	#115
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May 12, 2012, 09:20 AM	#118
SkullE_again Rage3D Veteran Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Nashua, NH. Posts: 1,167	sounds like you've learned your lesson. Unfortunately it will be an expensive one. Now ask yourself....can you live on your own and be happy like us introverts. a lot of people can't and they jump right back into another bad relationship. __________________ Digital Storm customized system p67/2600k/8g/580/ssd/etc..

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May 12, 2012, 09:42 AM	#119
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