Dude that sooo fixed my problem!!
I am dumb - I thought before already "Hey, this must be the iTunes-Plugin that I just installed"....and then forgot about it imediately again.
So I can keep Norton, no need for generic X10-Drivers or so.
Just made sure that atirw.exe was not running, removed the itunes.dll and startet the remote app - it worked without a reboot or so.
Too bad...cuz I really would like to use the plugin, and it works...if you never reboot
I was using the Brandon M. DePesa Version v1.2
Plugin from http://remotew.free.fr/plugins.htm#itunes
I wonder if there is any other plugin working? Maybe the one from Matt? (Homepage is down, link also on remotew.free.fr
Yeah I am gonna try out this one - thanks to google cache (http://188.8.131.52/search?q=cache:...rased.us/iTW.e
Someone should point this out to remotew.free.fr. I was already about to get very
pissed with my new remote!!