Edit: I've come to the conclusion my ASRock Extreme 4 sucks ass. Its not been the memory, its the dam board and its inability to handle 3600mhz. Nothing changed when running it at 3600mhz, still boot issues, if it does boot its rock stable at that speed though. I was able to dial it back to 3533mhz and lower the timings to 16 and who knows, it seems to boot OK. Gskill probably would have been fine if I had done the same thing. RGB looks good on both none the less.