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So now my GF is telling me she wants to let her guy friend (who she's known a few years) crash with her a week or so while he looks for a new place. Problem being she has no sleepable couch or air bed and she has mentioned in the past that they were such good friends that they have slept in the same bed in the past after party nights without any problems etc. I am of course ****ing pissed. A) I can't go visit her and "spend the night" with a mother ****ing "dude" staying over and B) Who the hell wants a guy in the same room as his girl when she goes to bed? What the hell? How bad should I fly off the handle on this?
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absolutely not
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Dang, man you should call her everynight or something to make sure everything is ok. I hope everything goes out ok for you two.
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I can't believe she is even suggesting that.
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Make sure you sleep between them. Or you could always appear to be trusting and act as if it doesn't bother you.
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Wow. All I can say is, is she 12? Never heard of such a strange situation without sex involved. Bizzaro World is here!!! Sry. Edit: How many guy friends does she trust to sleep with? Freaking Wow!
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Tough situation mang. You can either trust her or not. Are you at a place in your relationship you can tell her you feel uncomfortable with the idea? Can you provide an air mattress or sleeping bag etc. for this guy to use? |
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I'm just gonna tell her that having a DUDE sleep over with her... in the SAME BED is over my tolerance limit for "whats cool" with me. She tried to reassure me by saying he's a 5-foot zero little Emo kid she's just buddies with but I am STILL angry. What The F***?
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It's friggin chicken!
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Well your iether forced to trust her or not. If you dont trust her let her know, in a well thought out manner of course.
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Tell her ironically at the same time you have a friend who is a girl that is also looking for a place to stay and she will be sleeping in bed with you. Women are self-centered and inept, seriously, you need to reflect the situation toward them the whole, "if you were in my shoes deal" and then SOMETIMES it gets through the very thick female skull. If she stands her ground, buy a hooker for the week. I could supply you with several phone numbers but they quit sending me girls once it became common that they went missing after visiting me. ![]() ![]() You can always just kick the **** out of her too. But rule of thumb, wait to do that until you have to tell her twice, then it's on.
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He can sleep on the floor with a sleeping bag. In the same bed? No, I don't think so...
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make sure you establish some rules first like no 'crossing swords' and etc. ![]() this might be a fantasy come true for her --- her boyfriend and her guyfriend together. |
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in the bed... with her... sounds more like she's trying the invite a rapist over
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Solution is easy. Tell her it's cool, no problem. Then leave the bitch pronto, don't tell her anything, just end it. Suppose you said hey, this girl I know is gonna crash in my bed for a week, we cool? Nothing will happen, we're just friends ya know. Yea exactly.
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Do you have a futon mattress you could take over.
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Hell no.
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I'd leave the girl just for suggesting it, but that's just me. BTW, if you let her get way with it, you'll make the front cover of Pussy Whipped magazine, so it's not all bad.
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I think she wants you to break up with her. ![]()
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His a 5ft lil emo kid? and shes actually comfortable with having a " lil 5ft emo kid" sleep with her? ![]()
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I always say, she thinks its cool but my suggestion is, tell her ok, you also have a female friend that wants to stay with you and sleep in the same bed, see how her reaction would be.
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A five foot emo kid lol. I'd be afraid of him slitting her throat and blaming it in you.
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Just make sure the balls don't touch, eh? ![]() Seriously however, it's either you must trust your GF so much that this kind of thing should not bother you or you've got to draw the line somewhere. Best of luck. And BTW, your thread reminded me of this pic (NSFW) image removed Last edited by Ryoko : Oct 29, 2009 at 05:39 AM. |
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Tell her he can sleep on the floor… outside her room. What kind of house does your gf live in? No living room? Seriously. And doesn’t this guy have other friends? Like wtf, is he a puss or something? Who sleeps with a girl and nothing happens?
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So if she digs her heels in I'm gonna bring the air bed over and tell her the dude goes on THAT... not her bed. Which is bad enough for my taste as she lives in a studio with just a wall sectioning off her "bedroom" and no door.
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